OWH GOD!!!!!!!!
damm, i dont know what to do..
First of all, i wanted to say sorry for not updating my blog for a while. Been very busy with work and studies. Hmmm... where should i start first...
Ok, I think I should start with things that pisses me off. Well, these last few weeks has been very hectic. With deadline to meet, and projects to be done. And another unnecessary sonofabitch which i should deal with. The story goes....
Well, one day, i was visiting one of my group i FB, then i saw that there was some people there, talkin bout shit and stuff. Then, i saw this sonofabitch's post, who is clearly cakap besar n kurang ajar with the people there. And he was talking as if he represents us. Then i posted something like this....
"ok i noe and im sorry for that. i know that 'some' of the JPK are outspoken and think that they own the world. zul n asep, honestly aku pun malu... But one bad fruit doesnt represent the whole batch. Youre just talking to the wrong person. So bg pihak JPK aq nak minta maaf byk2. Harap kejadian tok x jadi dendam to mana2 pihak."
OK, need i mention that i dint say anything harsh there? and guess what, that sonofabitch replied with this.
"Hahaha!!! Even a 'not staight' JPK pon boleh mengadu... Cian nya... Neway, keputusan Muktamad, I wont resign... Kt dpt lihat, mcm mana kepimpinan Timbalannya, bgtu la kepimpinan Ecxo2 yg lain... A 'not straight' people cant show other people to be straight... Ibarat Ibu ketam mengajar anak nya berjalan lurus..."
and this....
"I wont say this, mun nya x mula kan dolok... Hahaha..."
AND I WAS LIKE...WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!
ADAKA AKU YG MULAKAN DOLOK? TERANG2 DAH NYA MULAKAN. When I read this I was literary trembling. My hands are shaking and I could feel my face flushed. CELAKA BABI ORG YA PDH AKU MCM YA.
Then dkt post2 lain pun nya buat macam ya. Eventhough aku x buat apa2 pun. To people out there, who really think that I act immature and stupid, LET ME TELL YOU THIS, I HAVE MY DIGNITY. AS TOLERATE AS I COULD EVER BE, I COULD NEVER LET MYSELF BE TREATED LIKE THAT. I DONT CARE WHAT YOU SAY. IF PEOPLE RUN AROUND TELLING STUFF ABOUT YOU WHO ISNT TRUE, BECAUSE OF PERSONAL DISPUTE, TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL. I BET YOURE NOT THAT GOOD ENOUGH TO SHRUG IF OFF RITE? TELL ME AM I RIGHT!!!???
And did I mention that he invite my ex-GF along... YES YOU READ IT, ITS MY EX-GF PEOPLE!!!! To stand up and support him there. Because all these other people trashed him because hes being a jerk by showing off and stuff. PATHETIC.... He even msg some of my frens to stand up for him. YES, YOU READ IT RIGHT. And, were turned down, because why? its obvious.. HES RETARDED!!! AND ARE OBVIOUSLY WRONG!!!
and did I mention that the bitch(ex-GF) never step her stupid paw in UNIMAS? and did i mention that shes in sabah now? NOW YOU KNOW THAT THE SONOFABITCH IS REALLL DESPERATE.
AWWWW...... cmon.. and that piece of shit STILL wont stop. GOSH.....
Again, another friend of mine posted something as her status. And I heard from her that the crazy sonofabitch begged her to delete it. PATHETIC.
And the bitch still wont stop.....*sigh.....*
and then i read one of my frens blog. She criticize me for posting my feeling out. OK, gurl, hear me out. Nya yang start tukarkan hal professional ke hal personal lok. AND SEPERTI YANG AKU MDH TDI, AKU MANUSIA, AND MANUSIA ADA BATAS NYA. APA PERASAAN KO MUN ORG PDH KAU KENJA, PISAU CUKUR AND ADA BANYAK SKANDAL. APA KO RASA, MCM YA LA AKU RASA. AND JGN KO MOK JUDGE ORG MUN DAH XTAUK CRITA DARI HUJUNG PANGKALNYA.
AKU X SUKA ORG ANOK AKU DARI BLAKANG. IF YOU HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING, JUST SAY IT. AND YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT IM A CALM AND COLLECTED PERSON. AKU X CPT MANAS. AND ADA SESETENGAH BENDA YANG AKU X DPT TAHAN. AND THIS IS ONE OF THEM.
And to you other guys, I wont except "rilek2" or "cool2". So sick and tired of these kind of comments. I lost my cool a LONG time ago with this crazy MOTHERFUCKER.
And I wonder, GOD created manusia sebaik2 ciptaan. Tapi KENAK masih ada manusia mcm tok. Harap one day ill get the answer. Mun mok menguji tahap kesabaran aku, I SNAPPED. So get off my back. X perlu la mok bangkitkan kemarahan aku agik!!!
And to guys and gurls out there. I am generally a guy who likes to laugh, and loves to smile, have fun and very optimistic. Me being this mad is very unusual.
OK, so I need to go now, before i smash my keyboard for typing too hard...
chow.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Sunday, October 11, 2009
A Post for My Female Friends
Something for you to wonder...
1. You say to us, "You're not romantic anymore." Fine, we'll try harder. But only if you agree to initiate once in a while, too. Deal?
2. Then there's "You never listen." This is not an inherently male trait. I mean, how many times does a guy have to explain the infield-fly rule?
3. No, you don't look fat. Did we mention how you never listen?
4. If you ask our opinion, please don't get mad when we give it. The color of the curtains shouldn't be a referendum on our relationship.
5. It's just a spider, for Pete's sake. Step on it.
6. We worked a 60-hour week, took out the garbage, did the dishes, paid the bills, walked the dog, changed the oil, picked up the dry cleaning, read to the kids, and gave you equal time. All we're asking for is 3 hours on the couch on Sunday.
7. No more deflecting responsibility for crummy behavior with cute and kittenish responses. You can't giggle your way out of trouble anymore.
8. You know damn well what we're doing in there. Stop asking.
9. Forget the notion that raising kids is harder than maintaining gainful employment. More important? Yes. But harder? No.
10. If you continue to dump on our best friend, we will probe the (many) character tics of all your friends.
11. If you want to have kids, you have to have sex. This is not a complaint. This is science.
12. Somewhere, somehow, women were sold this idea of "fashionably late." Men don't get this. Make up a fashion emergency if you must, but don't ask us to be intentionally tardy. It's like asking us to kick the host in the groin.
13. Yes, that woman is hot. Yes, we appreciate beauty. That's why we're with you.
14. We do listen. And empathize. But when your troubles have been analyzed until there's nothing left to talk about, can we please stop talking about them?
15. If we fell in love with you when you had long hair, we're going to want you to keep your long hair until death do us part. We'll beg, but would prefer not to.
16. As for commitment ultimatums, just address numbers 1 through 15 on this list, then we'll talk.
Remember that well gurls.. Treat your man nicely, and they will do the same.:)
Oh, and do me a favour and click the link below please... tq...
1. You say to us, "You're not romantic anymore." Fine, we'll try harder. But only if you agree to initiate once in a while, too. Deal?
2. Then there's "You never listen." This is not an inherently male trait. I mean, how many times does a guy have to explain the infield-fly rule?
3. No, you don't look fat. Did we mention how you never listen?
4. If you ask our opinion, please don't get mad when we give it. The color of the curtains shouldn't be a referendum on our relationship.
5. It's just a spider, for Pete's sake. Step on it.
6. We worked a 60-hour week, took out the garbage, did the dishes, paid the bills, walked the dog, changed the oil, picked up the dry cleaning, read to the kids, and gave you equal time. All we're asking for is 3 hours on the couch on Sunday.
7. No more deflecting responsibility for crummy behavior with cute and kittenish responses. You can't giggle your way out of trouble anymore.
8. You know damn well what we're doing in there. Stop asking.
9. Forget the notion that raising kids is harder than maintaining gainful employment. More important? Yes. But harder? No.
10. If you continue to dump on our best friend, we will probe the (many) character tics of all your friends.
11. If you want to have kids, you have to have sex. This is not a complaint. This is science.
12. Somewhere, somehow, women were sold this idea of "fashionably late." Men don't get this. Make up a fashion emergency if you must, but don't ask us to be intentionally tardy. It's like asking us to kick the host in the groin.
13. Yes, that woman is hot. Yes, we appreciate beauty. That's why we're with you.
14. We do listen. And empathize. But when your troubles have been analyzed until there's nothing left to talk about, can we please stop talking about them?
15. If we fell in love with you when you had long hair, we're going to want you to keep your long hair until death do us part. We'll beg, but would prefer not to.
16. As for commitment ultimatums, just address numbers 1 through 15 on this list, then we'll talk.
Remember that well gurls.. Treat your man nicely, and they will do the same.:)
Oh, and do me a favour and click the link below please... tq...
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
A Post Which All Guys Should Read and Remember..
Guys, it hard to find a friend, but its harder to find a TRUE friend.
So I came across this article a long time ago, and I am glad Ive kept it.
Its a guide on how to choose your friend, and how to be a good one.
Think about it...
1.He Doesn't Help You Move
Favors are guy currency. "It's how they express how much they care about each other." If your buddy is always busy when you need him most, or you don't bother soliciting his help anymore, the friendship may be in trouble.
2. He Call You Only When He's Down
You've gone from comrade to counselor. "It's no longer a two-way relationship," says Lynn. Dump him or start charging by the hour.
3. He Rarely Hangs Out
"In contrast to women, who emphasize emotional closeness, men have friendships based on activities they do together," says Koji Ueno, Ph.D., an assistant professor of sociology at Florida State University. If you no longer make time for each other, the friendship is doomed.
BTW, I have experienced this kind of problem. With a friend of mine. Rarely seen him nowadays.
4. His Jokes aren't Funny Anymore
"His frat-house antics aren't as hilarious now that you're 35 with two kids," says Lynn. "That's because you're in different life stages now." Related sign: You talk only about the old days.
5. He Lies About the Small Things
Guys base friendships on whether the other person has their back. "When trust erodes, the friendship follows," says Lynn.
6. He Talks About How Much More You Earn
Men tend to pair up, friendwise, based on background and status. "If one friend suddenly gets a higher-paying job," says Ueno, "that could put the friendship on thin ice."
7. Your Girlfriend Thinks He's a Dolt
Women judge relationships by whether they're socially appropriate, "so she'll be able to tell right away if the only thing holding your friendship together is the past."
Friendship is a wonderful thing. Dont mess it up.
So I came across this article a long time ago, and I am glad Ive kept it.
Its a guide on how to choose your friend, and how to be a good one.
Think about it...
1.He Doesn't Help You Move
Favors are guy currency. "It's how they express how much they care about each other." If your buddy is always busy when you need him most, or you don't bother soliciting his help anymore, the friendship may be in trouble.
2. He Call You Only When He's Down
You've gone from comrade to counselor. "It's no longer a two-way relationship," says Lynn. Dump him or start charging by the hour.
3. He Rarely Hangs Out
"In contrast to women, who emphasize emotional closeness, men have friendships based on activities they do together," says Koji Ueno, Ph.D., an assistant professor of sociology at Florida State University. If you no longer make time for each other, the friendship is doomed.
BTW, I have experienced this kind of problem. With a friend of mine. Rarely seen him nowadays.
4. His Jokes aren't Funny Anymore
"His frat-house antics aren't as hilarious now that you're 35 with two kids," says Lynn. "That's because you're in different life stages now." Related sign: You talk only about the old days.
5. He Lies About the Small Things
Guys base friendships on whether the other person has their back. "When trust erodes, the friendship follows," says Lynn.
6. He Talks About How Much More You Earn
Men tend to pair up, friendwise, based on background and status. "If one friend suddenly gets a higher-paying job," says Ueno, "that could put the friendship on thin ice."
7. Your Girlfriend Thinks He's a Dolt
Women judge relationships by whether they're socially appropriate, "so she'll be able to tell right away if the only thing holding your friendship together is the past."
Friendship is a wonderful thing. Dont mess it up.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Something Beautiful To Share....
We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls >OR TEXTS< you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. That it can't wait till the morning
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood I'm in.Let us pay for you! Don't 'feel bad' We enjoy doing it.It's expected.Smile and say 'thank you
Kiss us when no one's watching.If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking,we'll be more impressed.
You don't have to get dressed up for us If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.We like you for who you are and not what you are.Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's.or my T-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.
Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brat Pitt, or Jesse McCartney in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful'? I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/stud/cutie/sexy' or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand I'm not saying i wouldn't like it ether ;)
Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry ass, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowes
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you' ..and actually mean it.
Give the nice guys a chance.
Guys re-post this if you agree.
Girls re-post this if you think it's cute.
-Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will re-post this
ADVICE:
*Holding Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of
times
*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.
*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it
*Laying below the stars
Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with her.
And Boys. If you like a girl, just TELL THEM. There's nothing to be afraid of. And if you don't , you'll regret it your whole life. They might just like you back, take that chance , its worth it !
I dedicated this to the love of my life...
I LOVE YOU ayang...
Miss you SOOOOO much...:(
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood I'm in.Let us pay for you! Don't 'feel bad' We enjoy doing it.It's expected.Smile and say 'thank you
Kiss us when no one's watching.If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking,we'll be more impressed.
You don't have to get dressed up for us If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.We like you for who you are and not what you are.Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's.or my T-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.
Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brat Pitt, or Jesse McCartney in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful'? I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/stud/cutie/sexy' or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand I'm not saying i wouldn't like it ether ;)
Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry ass, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowes
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you' ..and actually mean it.
Give the nice guys a chance.
Guys re-post this if you agree.
Girls re-post this if you think it's cute.
-Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will re-post this
ADVICE:
*Holding Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of
times
*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.
*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it
*Laying below the stars
Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with her.
And Boys. If you like a girl, just TELL THEM. There's nothing to be afraid of. And if you don't , you'll regret it your whole life. They might just like you back, take that chance , its worth it !
I dedicated this to the love of my life...
I LOVE YOU ayang...
Miss you SOOOOO much...:(
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